Now or never #Share the load

Let’s start with an example

It’s time we change this mind set.

When we see our women in the family working do we think of helping, or do we ask her may I help you. Why ask can’t we give it a try and go ahead and help her. Why just look at her working?

When after a long day she thinks of sleeping early she can’t. Not because she doesn’t want to but because she as to get things ready for the next day. Till everything is ready it gets too late to sleep. May be if would go to her and help her she would finish her work early and get to bed early.

Don’t say you love her, show you love her. The best way to show her is it by making her work easy. Don’t help her because you want to show off. Give it a try, do it now

Do we think twice before removing faults in the food that she cooked? No, right because we are into a habit to say things without thinking twice. But if the food is delicious do we compliment her? No, if no start now, start today.

Why say it when she is cooking go help her in the smallest way possible.

When your favourite shirt is not washed properly we just shout at her. But every day she keeps your clothes ready for work. Do you say a thank you to her?

Don’t just say a thank you instead make her work easy in the best way possible.

She keeps the house clean do you appreciate it. Say a word that will please her.

Why just say, help her clean the house when you have a holiday.

On her birthday we buy her gift don’t we? But do we think what she really wants? Do we keep her wants and necessity in mind before buying her gifts?

Most women just need time together, Give her an off from her daily routine. Spend some valuable time together make memories

 We go to work and after that we meet our friends come home spend time watching TV or on a social media site.

Do we take time and help her in the house work? Don’t you think we should?

Make a change! Make all the women feel better, like she does all you work without you asking her to do. Help her in her work without her asking you for help. Make her feel more love because she gives in her all to do her best to make you things easy for do. Don’t you think you should do the same?

It’s better now or never. 

I am joining the Ariel #ShareTheLoad campaign at BlogAdda and blogging about the prejudice related to household chores being passed on to the next generation.